Jyeshta wrote:
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> On Fri, 16 May 2008 12:24:46 GMT, anonymous
> <anonymous@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
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> >Hetero***ual men used to think that they owned women and, of course,
> >that isn't remotely true.
>
> Weirdly, I've observed that in relation****ps, women still have
> the men make the decisions - especially if the woman earns more
> than the man - it's a sort of over-compensation on the part of
> the woman. I'm not sure why women do that, but I've seen it in a
> majority of relation****ps.
Weirdly, I have seen quite the opposite. While women may pass men money
quietly over or under the table to politely suggest the man is paying
the bill even it is agreed it is her turn, most women make the decisions
or heavily influence the decision the man decides to take. The rule is
generally if you want a harmonious household, you don't piss off the
woman. Perhaps it would be appropriate to give examples of the
decisions men make.


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