> have to handle the tempertantrum right ... and the child is furious which
> they have to be to grow up and have some spiritual force of life in
freedom
> like we try to do in the USA ... but is being sold out to Cor****ate
whores
> like Swartznigger and their catholic nazi brotherhood. But that is
another
> matter.
How do you think the tantrum can be handled "right"? We all
get angry as kids when we find we can't always have exactly what
we want exactly when we want it, and how parents react is often
dictated first by what *their* parents do with them under similar
cir***stances, and then (if that doesn't work) by whatever the
prevailing theory of child development says is the best approach.
Yet our "Jonestowns" are, thankfully, few and far enough between
to be horrible shocks each time it happens again, so something is
working for the majority of us regardless of how adults treat the
problem of the crossed and angry brute ego in their children.
> if the tempertantrum is not handled well ... the child remains immature,
> petulant, pouting, angry, misguided, a ****ed kid, who turns out to be a
> ****ed adult ... no matter how well they present and how sugar and spice
> their words are ... they are in a tempertantrum demanding more time,
more
> treasure, for you to roll, do it his way or the highway.
>
> it is how Jonestown happens .. not one of Jimmies 5 wifes could not let
the
> koolaid drinker have his tempertantrum .. and go off have a swimming
party,
> bbq, good time with their friends ... toodlelooo. Jimmy was not
interested
> in such invitations of playfullness.
>
> Was not brought up that way ... and his wifes were brought up to roll
and
> pay off the tempertantrum.
>
> This immature person hates mom and dad inside ... so that sets up the
whole
> sick ball game.
Or -- the immature person can also become unhealthily dependent
on mom or dad or both. I don't see the situation as that cut-and-dried,
but very complex and changing all the time. Generally speaking you
have to get to a pretty macro-macro level before one size fits all in
anything about human behavior and psychology. This is what keeps
us from getting too bored with ourselves to live . . .
C
>
> Really.
>
> Hate mom inside ... and what is off outside is drugs, medicine, food,
> nuturance, recovery, therapy, healing, sabotaging therapy games,
addictions,
> philosophy, religion, spirituality.
>
> Hate dad inside ... and what is off outside is making a home, putting a
roof
> up, protecting the feminine creative space from molestation with
boundaries
> of strength, taking in money, paying off debt, peace on earth is off.
>
> All because of a tempertantum and mom and dad rolling ... doing what
ever
> they had to do to shut the little boy up. Or girl ... or some times
they
> beat them into shutting up ...so their tempertantrum is more forcefull
and
> rigid in their defense structure.
>
> There is a lot here in what I posted to you Crow ...but you are a smart
chap
> ... and if you got your mind wrap around this ... you got maybe 95% of
what
> I got going on in turning this nut you are turning.
>
> sumbuddie on a clear channel
>
> :()
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