Hey guys ...
Thought you might like to go down this path ... where it ends up is with
the
movie "Gone with the Wind" where Rhett says to Scarlet: "Frankly dear I
don't give a damm.
So ... what is this about .. it is the victim/hero.
Boys and girls do it.
Girls make this a favorite game of theirs.
The Victim/Hero has been going on for a LONG time, it comes from the
defense
structure ... a function of PTSD and usefull to staying alive ... sick,
dysfunctional, making casualities, saddness and regrets ... but alive.
In a court of law this is seen with the victimize battered wife/girlfriend
sort of thing. Let us take this from her point of view, but remember boys
do this as well ... when they are out battleing the enemy and having
victory
over it; especially if the enemy is terror, a boogie man, the evil Santa.
What the girl does ... she is really angry inside but is all sweetness,
light and love on the outside. She gets the man angry (he is a pistol and
easy to do, remember he is just as angry as she is). He yells at her,
make
treats over the phone, etc. She starts to tell her friends, her
co-workers,
her prayer circle, and recruits all the people who fall for the story she
is
making where she is the victim ... and they get to raise her as a hero
over
the bad man. She had victory with prayer. She is a hero and so are we in
the prayer circle.
This carries on until she taken by hand and she is ushered to the cops,
and
the next things she knows the cops listen to 50 mintues of tapes, and the
next thing she knows she is signing papers, and the next thing she knows
Miss sweetness, light and love ... this is all turned into an arrest
warrent.
In California to make such bad phone calls is now a FELONY under the
Swartznigger rule of law. It is a TERRORIST charge ... causing fear in
another person is a crime. A felony terror charge.
The next step for her, after he is arrested if she is really sick ... is
to
then drop the charges, and run to her boyfriend and show herself as the
person who he victimize and now she is a hero to him and his family for
dropping the charges.
Maybe the rebound *** is good ... don't matter. It will keep escalating
the
cycle of violence she is instigating unconsciously cause she hates her dad
so much, she will be victimized again at her request actually ... and then
get to play the hero again.
This goes back and forth. Until he is so ragefull that he kills her and
does an OJ. She will not let go of him, and he will not let go of her; go
out and get recovery from their relation****p addiction and *** addictions.
He will not change the emotional bathwater, she will not either.
This victim/hero goes way back to Mythology .. where Zeus was screwing
around on Hera (the wicked step mother). Hera would get hesterical and
ditzy, do something nasty to her stepchildren/husband, and then rush in
being a heratic, making prevarications, misrepresentations and
obfuscations,
secrets and lies ... thus making herself out as the hero covertly fixing
things after making all the mess.
How to do boys do it.
The make up a false enemy, and then go out and defeat it making them
selves
a hero.
See George Bush for an example as Ossama is the silly wabbit getting him
good.
The fix is changing the emotional bathwater from fear to love, fixing the
toddler tantrum and growing up.
No fix what is broken, just keep doing the casualities, saddness and
regrets
until you do.
The Defense Structure is patient, it will wait life times until you tire
of
it one way or the other. Tire of the disease and live, or tire of living
and die.
See Jonestown.
With Rhett Butler and Scarlett ... Scarlett was all victimized by herself
through her own manipulations and lack of making good strong medicine.
Scarlett keep destroying her life with casualites, saddness and regrets
making a mess of things. Then when it all falls down around her in her
Jonestown court of law called the Civil War she was drawn into ... then
she
swoons, does her Southern Bell thing, and wants Rhett to rescue her.
Rhett figures out that the only person to save Scarlett from her magical
thinking is herself, and he gives up ... saying to her ... I don't give a
damm. Still angry yes, but finally healthy enough to have nothing to do
with her since there is no way to fix this out side of the person doing
the
victim/hero game all the time.
May our Jealous God the Father who makes babies with His daughters and
manifest as talking fire, smoke, serpent staff, insects, pestilence, bog
creatures, darklight, and mass casuality child killing airs keep you safe
and unmolested.
sumbuddie hopes this helps.
:)
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