David Looser wrote:
> "Dario Western" <westernorama@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message
> news:4794528e$0$4437$afc38c87@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>> Hi Surfer and David,
>>
>>> > I know nothing about this situation, but I feel its possible that
some
>>> > teenagers could go through a phase of finding the sight of ****
bodies
>>> > ***ually over stimulating.
>>
>> I don't agree with that. Peter's children were ****d in the video, and
>> they
>> were in their teens when it was made. None of them were perturbed with
>> seeing other ****d people or being ****d themselves. I don't know if
>> they eventually turned away from ****ism, but Peter has since retired
from
>> TGB and
>> his son Thaila is now running the place.
>>
>>> It's not that. Nobody brought up with ****ity as a commonplace is going
>>> to find the sight of **** bodies over stimulating. It's the teenagers
>>> who
>> were
>>> brought up with the idea that ****ity is "naughty", to be kept hidden
>>> away,
>>> that will feel that way.
>>
>> That's why something needs to be done to combat this type of thinking.
>> Today's teens don't see things like homo***uality or Wicca/Paganism to
be
>> 'bad' or 'naughty' as they were treated until about 30 - 40 years ago.
>> Why
>> can't they accept simple ****ity as being fun and wholesome as well?
>>
> Because of the messages that society throws at them.
>
>
>>> The reason that teenagers, even those brought up as ****ists, will go
>> through
>>> a "phase" is that they are uncomfortable with finding that they
>>> themselves
>>> have become ***ually interesting to others. Teenagers, brought up
within
>>> ****ism, rarely have a problem with attending ****ist venues, they just
>> don't
>>> want to be **** themselves.
>>
>> That's not the case with all ****ists, it may be with English-speaking
>> countries. In European ****ist videos, it isn't uncommon to see
teenaged
>> guys and girls happily socialising with each other and the older crowd.
>> ***
>> is a complete non-issue for them. I think teens could learn a lot from
>> them.
>>
>
> I never said this applies to "all" teenagers. But I'm not at all sure
that
> you can place much weight on what you see in videos, you really need to
> have been to places before you can comment on this sort of thing.
> Certainly my experience of European naturism is that there are noticably
> fewer teenagers than you might expect in an equivalent textile resort,
and
> that those who are there tend to stay dressed when adults and younger
> children are not.
>
>>
>>
> David.
My experience of this effect is that it is largely due to the fact that
teenagers are much more susceptible to peer pressure than are younger
children or adults - and while ****ism is not part of mainstream teen
culture, the majority of teenagers will be reluctant to take part, in the
same way that they are reluctant to do anything else outside of their
peers' norm (e.g. go to the opera, learn ballet for males etc) in case one
of these peers hears of it. With the increasing domination of TV
programming by US programs this mainstream teenage culture has become more
uniform and hence stronger in the last twenty years since mine were
teenagers (another four years before the first grandchild is a teen), but
I
have observed it in others.
JD


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