The club we're members of doesn't seem to have anti-single men policy. We
know quite a few men who are there by themselves, some as permanent
residents, others as weekend residents. Some we have met seem to prefer
to
be single minded and they don't appear to be looking to join couples, or
are
openly gay. Some have wives that are not into the ****ism but don't have a
problem with their hubby going ****d once in awhile. We've only met one
guy
with poor social skills who seems like he's in it for the pleasure of
looking at the babes, but most of the babes are seniors, and many of them
seem to be single as well. About two years ago Memorial day, we were
there
and the place was crowded. My wife had turned her knee and was on
crutches,
and was using the hot tub for the hydrotherapy. I left her alone to go
swim
some laps in the indoor pool, and not 5 minutes later a guy plopped down
next to her in the hot tub. He was to the point; he and his wife thought
we
were good looking enough to ask if we were into swinging. So the point is
anyone can be annoying or obnoxious not just single guys. Any anyone can
act with civility and use manners including single guys. We just need to
reinforce good behavior and speak out when we're confronted with bad
behavior. Too many people give up on a club because of others being boors
or dolts, or assholes. Management can't be everywhere, we don't need
surveillance cameras, we just need people to speak out against behavior
they
don't like.Peer pressure goes along way, even if people act like retards
when confronted, "Who the hell are you to tell me what not to do?"
Bill S in AZ
"Peter Riden" <Affiliat@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote in message
news:8a1f1858-0799-487c-bc5c-d20cc6ada8fe@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>I find it aberrant that the single/non-accompanied male be that much
> excluded at most places while at once the single/non-accompanied
> female would get the preferential treatment.
> At THE GRAND BARN, I/we prefer to give the preferential treatment
> equally to both genders. What prompts me to come up with this is an
> inquiry that a single female made to a certain resort. Regrettably,
> their group will not dare posting my answer as was the case a while
> back when I stood up for such situation. The current post and the
> answer goes like this
>
> *****************************
> Re: Are singles allowed?
> CindyLou wrote:
>> Hi everyone. I am 27, single, and would love to visit XXX this
>> spring, however it appears that most members are couples.
>> Also are there others around my age? Thanks for any
>> response, xo
>> Cindylou.
>
> The answer from Dean & Elaine, on Mon Feb 4, 2008 4:09 pm (PST) was:
> Hey Cindy,
> Since you're a single "femaile", all is good. Most resorts and clubs
> like XXX more than welcome single females. Single males, on the other
> hand, are not allowed. When we've been there, we have seen some lone
> females.
> It is pretty much what you want to make of it.
> Dean & Elaine
> **************************
>
> I find that answer nearly nauseating when it comes to how the single/
> non-accompanied male is being treated at most resorts. I love women,
> that is very well known. But not at the expenses of the male gender.
> So, it might be time that any male with a semblance of dignity do
> stand up and show sup****t to a destination that doesn't require he be
> accompanied by a woman, as some sort of pass****t to gain access to our
> resort. More so, once such male does find a female partner that he not
> negate TGB was the sole place where he was given access prior to be
> with a companion and not suddenly suck up to the very places that turn
> him down when he was on a solo venture and stop coming at TGB. Sadly
> enough it did happen in the past and that is also very disgraceful.
> I want to hear what you all think of this and with the fact we are
> also celebrating our 20th year of operation at THE GRAND BARN... do
> you welcome that we are that single equal gender friendly.
> Time for you all to speak up
> Don't forget the next generation, (as in my son Thaila and his team)
> is slowly taking over TGB so that what you've enjoyed all along be
> kept as you've known it. I'm sure Thaila will take it from the
> feedback we'll be getting here.
>
> You can also make your presence felt on our T.W.A.N. message board/
> forum at
> http://www.the-worldwide-affiliate-network.com/closer/
>
> In Friend****p & Universality
> Peter Riden {T.W.A.N. Founder}
> http://www.the-worldwide-affiliate-network.com
> T.W.A.N.'s very own newsgroup:
> alt.the-worldwide-affiliate-network
> {TGB Conceptor}: http://www.the-grand-barn.com
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Affiliate-Online
> hhttp://groups.yahoo.com/group/****ity-/
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/The-Grand-Barn
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/TheGrandBarn
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