siani wrote:
> Tiny Human Ferret wrote:
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>> Endymion wrote:
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>>>> This might tend to explain why I, the nicest guy on the planet, am
>>>> entirely uninteresting to females.
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>>> There's little mystery to nice, and to the extent there is, no one
>>> wants to know the answer - the secret nastiness you're hiding.
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>> What, fookin' hepatitis? It's not like I intend to let anyone catch
>> it, but having people interested enough to have to be informed, that
>> might be a rare treat if it ever happened.
>
>
> you've said in the past on AG that you're celibate because of it, and
> gave the general, if not specific, impression that you'd really rather
> people didn't come on to you, since you can't really respond.
Well, it's more of a timesaver... and as time has gone on, and medicine
has advanced, and prices have come down... perhaps I'm not as celibate
as I think, or not so absolutely determinedly so. But of course, I still
have to hand out a "notice of risk" form complete with legal
boilerplate, etc.
>
> all the usenet and lj people know each other, and mostly only come on to
> each other. if i was waiting for someone who i didn't know through them
> to come on to me, i'd be waiting a long time, too.
I learnt my lesson long long ago, in general, about hooking up with
people I met online. I've seen it work, but for me, I respond to an
online solicitation and I'll end up like Jonathan Harker[1]. It's
happened before and would probably happen again.
I'd have to actually leave the house to meet someone, I know that.
--klaatu, just muttering out loud and feel free to pay no attention
Ref:
1. Dove out of a window into whatever unknown might lie below, really
truly.
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nam primi in omnibus proeliis oculi vin****ur.


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