Re: same *** marriage petition (Canada) .

Melanie wrote:

> Just shut your eyes.

That might not work for me, I think I have some sensitivity
to touch of non-compatible versus compatible, and probably
you would get similar advice on soc.***uality.general .

Also you must mean shut your eyes and think of someone you
are interested with and not the one you are with and that
is a major spiritual no-no as far as I am concerned and
should not be an option.    Two gays having *** is fine,
and two lesbians having *** is fine, but a gay thinking
of a gay and supposedly loving a lesbian thinking of
a lesbian is a no-no, celibacy, or solo state but 
including masturbation, which some might not consider
celibacy, is better.   But anyway if more prospective
rapists (including child abusers) masturbated more
maybe they would commit fewer or no crimes.

David