On Apr 8, 10:40=A0pm, Aqua <a...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> Jeff wrote:
> > Just wondering whether or not this type of relation****p is considered
> > possible in the gay community. =A0My partner and I have been thinking
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> > like to find another guy to add to our relation****p to be a member of
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> > household physically and emotionally.
>
> Repeating Stef: sure, of course there's poly gay (and lesbian)
> relation****ps.
Ditto. I am gay and in a relation****p with two separate guys. It is
not a 3-way relation****p (though the 2 of them get along, finally). My
primary, on the other hand, is exploring a relation****p with a
bi***ual married man.
So, yeah, they can exist.
I am not a first hand expert yet on the feasibility of all this, as we
are exploring it all carefully. I am fairly up on some of the
pitfalls, though. :)
>
> As usual though, be careful about constructing a shopping list of
> requirements for that magical third. =A0Remember that he (in this case)
> also has to feel he's gaining something, and is not just a toy to spice
> up the existing relation****p (unless of course there are people who like
> that idea).
There are, of course. Occassionally, I have even been one of them. It
was never the basis of anything long term or meaningful for me, but I
could see how it might be for some.
Lane
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