ldsmommy2002@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:
>I'm a female in my late twenties and currently in LOVE with my (male)
>partner. In the past, I've enjoyed poly relation****ps, but with my
>current beau, he is VERY loyal and has no desire to date other women.
>Fortunately, I have no desire to see other men, either, so we've
>reached an agreement. Monogamy it is!
So, what's the problem?
>He's well aware of my past, and we've spoken about it. He might have
>some concerns, but overall, our trust and communication is EXCEPTIONAL
>(better than anyone I've ever been with!). But, of course, I
>sometimes wish he would see other women. Our love is so intense and
>fantastic, that I WANT him to share it with other people... is this
>normal? Ack!
Why do you want him to share himself with other people if he only wants
to be with you? Do you fundamentally believe yourself unworthy of
monogamous love? Alternatively, do you think it's somehow ideologically
hipper to share?
Orlando
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