Re: Drama (was Re: Pesky Gender, another rant [was: First posting...

sio wrote:
> Fri, 16 May 2008 19:50:10 -0700 tikte dan wel citeerde Serene:
> 
>> I said, kind of fliply, that maybe it's because I spend most of my 
>> time around grown-ups -- people who can be civil with each other 
>> even if they have differences -- and maybe that's a bigger part of 
>> it than I thought when I was saying it.
>>
>> Thoughts?
> 
> I mainly grew up between adults. But one of them (my father), was
> prone to outbursts like my own and I guess he is also the one who made
> me feel completely ignored at certain times. Which still results in
> very strong feelings of being ignored if people don't interact with me
> in discussions or give me the feeling that they ignore what I feel or
> say.

Are they able to say "I can't talk about this now -- can we do it 
later?" without making you feel ignored?

> 
> That is usually still good for some drama helas. 

*hugs*

Serene