Quoth anarii@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
on Tue, 22 Jul 2008 01:22:17 -0700 (PDT):
>On Jul 22, 12:36 am, Miche <michei...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
>> In article
>> <ed9f0dc8-f668-43d4-b649-6db422495...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>,
>>
>> ana...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:
>> > On Jul 21, 10:36 pm, Serene Vannoy <ser...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
>> > > nipolycouple wrote:
>> > > > Thanks for telling me that it can work.
>> > > > We were told all through our lives that you had to be monogomous
and
>> > > > it really never made sence. There are billions of people out
there
>> > > > and you are only allowed to love one?
>>
>> > > Yeah, that's not the way I work. I know there are people who are
>> > > perfectly happy loving one person at a time, and who never fall in
love
>> > > with a new person when they already have a partner. I'm just not
one of
>> > > them.
>>
>> > I'm still trying to figure out why everyone seems to be ok with
>> > cheating.
>>
>> We are? How'd you get that idea?
>>
>> Miche
>>
>> --
>> Electricians do it in three phases
>
>oh no, sorry I dont mean here, I mean people who dont believe in being
>honest about loving more than one person. Sorry bout that, I should
>have explained myself better. We know several people who want to have
>*** with us as long as we dont tell their husbands/wives. I dont
>understand that way of thinking at all, and as Jerry said we arent
>into one night stands or adding another notch to our belts.
One-night stands don't appeal to me, but I'm not opposed to them on
ethical grounds, if they're conducted honestly: that is, if the people
having them tell any other partners about the one-night stand (and
stick to whatever they've agreed with those partners) and tell the
one-night-stand-partner(s) that they have one or more long-term
partners. That is, it's not inherently cheating, even if one or more
of the people involved are already in relation****ps.
> It just
>seems that everytime we turn around people are wanting us to help them
>cheat.
Have you been advertising for partners? Not that there's anything
wrong with that, but I haven't been running into people who want me
to help them cheat. (This is not a complaint: I don't want to help
people cheat, and am just as pleased not to have to explain this to
the would-be cheaters.)
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Vicki Rosenzweig | vr@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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