On Jul 22, 7:54=A0pm, Vicki Rosenzweig <v...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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on Tue, 22 Jul 2008 01:22:17 -0700 (PDT):
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> >On Jul 22, 12:36=A0am, Miche <michei...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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> >> =A0ana...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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> >> > On Jul 21, 10:36=A0pm, Serene Vannoy <ser...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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> >> > > nipolycouple wrote:
> >> > > > Thanks for telling me that it can work.
> >> > > > We were told all through our lives that you had to be
monogomous=
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> >> > > > it really never made sence. =A0There are billions of people out
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there
> >> > > > and you are only allowed to love one?
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> >> > > Yeah, that's not the way I work. I know there are people who are
> >> > > perfectly happy loving one person at a time, and who never fall
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> >> > > with a new person when they already have a partner. I'm just not
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> >> > > them.
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> >> > I'm still trying to figure out why everyone seems to be ok with
> >> > cheating.
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> >> We are? =A0How'd you get that idea?
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> >> Electricians do it in three phases
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> >oh no, sorry I dont mean here, I mean people who dont believe in being
> >honest about loving more than one person. Sorry bout that, I should
> >have explained myself better. We know several people who want to have
> >*** with us as long as we dont tell their husbands/wives. I dont
> >understand that way of thinking at all, and as Jerry said we arent
> >into one night stands or adding another notch to our belts.
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> One-night stands don't appeal to me, but I'm not opposed to them on
> ethical grounds, if they're conducted honestly: that is, if the people
> having them tell any other partners about the one-night stand (and
> stick to whatever they've agreed with those partners) and tell the
> one-night-stand-partner(s) that they have one or more long-term
> partners. That is, it's not inherently cheating, even if one or more
> of the people involved are already in relation****ps.
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> > It just
> >seems that everytime we turn around people are wanting us to help them
> >cheat.
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> Have you been advertising for partners? Not that there's anything
> wrong with that, but I haven't been running into people who want me
> to help them cheat. (This is not a complaint: I don't want to help
> people cheat, and am just as pleased not to have to explain this to
> the would-be cheaters.)
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> Vicki Rosenzweig | v...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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No, we dont advertise for partners, I think the reason Jer and I get
approached is that we are the newcomers (just over a year) in a very
small town (less than 3000 peopple). The running joke is that everyone
is related to everyone either by marriage or blood. So basically we
are new blood. It may also be that we dont have a problem with talking
to members of the opposite ***. He has several women he texts on his
phone and I have several guys. That really surprises everyone. Nor do
we get upset about hugs and flirting from other people, and that
really really surprises everyone.
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