Re: hi from Idaho

Vicki Rosenzweig <vr@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>, in article
<q57d841d9d1rl6ubo1cha618in2glots80@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
>, dixit:
>One-night stands don't appeal to me, but I'm not opposed to them on
>ethical grounds, if they're conducted honestly: that is, if the people
>having them tell any other partners about the one-night stand (and
>stick to whatever they've agreed with those partners) and tell the
>one-night-stand-partner(s) that they have one or more long-term
>partners. That is, it's not inherently cheating, even if one or more
>of the people involved are already in relation****ps.

Sometimes a girl's just gotta get laid.  And I see nothing wrong with
going out and finding someone with a similar goal for the night.  It
can be tricky, negotiating that "do we have the same goal?" question,
but when it works, it's fabulous.

I agree that one night stands should be conducted honestly -- but my
standard is not the same as yours.  I don't expect or want to be told
about any other partners this person has, nor do I expect to share
that information about myself.  The shared goal of "one-night stand"
has covered that for me.


-- 
Piglet