Re: hi from Idaho

On Wed, 23 Jul 2008 10:16:49 -0700 (PDT), Lane
<absolutelane@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
>On Jul 23, 10:02 am, Pat Kight <kig...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:

>> *nod* While I have no direct experience with cheating (from either
>> side), I've witnessed plenty of it, and I sometimes wonder if secrecy
is
>> viewed as an easy way out.
>
>That certainly seems true for some people, and not just about
>cheating. The lies I have seen some people make to, say, excuse
>themselves from work, and the lies they have to make to cover up the
>lies, and so on, has just amazed me. To me, that is far more work than
>honesty and its consequences.
>
>Of course, it could just be that I'm a terrible liar.

*holds up hand*

That would be me too.

Mostly I can just never remember what I've told people, so the truth
is always easier to keep track of. Although if it was more im****tant
to me I'd probably pay more attention to remembering.

Come to think of it in every case where I've found out a partner has
cheated on me, they were able to keep the secret during - but they got
lax about covering their tracks after the affair was over. Presumably
when their attention had drifted elsewhere.

Siobhan