Re: hi from Idaho

Irfon-Kim Ahmad  <irfon@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:

>Steve Pope <spope33@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:

>> There is no single point of view behind a preference for cheating,
>> but from what I have seen the number one motivation comes down
>> to a simple control issue.

>This doesn't match my experience.  The most oft-cited reason given is 
>that being open about it is "throwing it in their face" or that if 
>you're going to sleep around you could at least have the decency to be 
>discreet about it.  

But maybe this is the difference between stated reasons and real 
reasons.

Controllers/manipulators are very seldom upfront about their
motivations.   They are constantly making excuses.

Steve